Not Online Dating? You Should, 1 in 3 Women Put Out On 1st Date!

Research Study Reveal Women Love Sex As Much As Men The title statistic was determined by Dr. Paige Padgett at the University of Texas. Padgett's 2007 study entitled "Personal Safety and Sexual Safety for Women Using Online Personal Ads" was published in a widely respected journal of the National Sexuality Research Center (Research & Social Policy Journal).

Padgett's study involved 740 women who had placed online ads seeking men. The results of the study were quite compelling. Padgett found that over 30% of the women engaged in sex on the 1st date. And more surprising, of those women that had sex, 77% reported not using a condom during 1st date sex.

Virtual Intimacy Theory The good Doctor Padgett didn't merely conclude that these women were slutty. However, she did find that women who would otherwise be very careful did have unprotected sex because they were lulled into a false sense of virtual intimacy by men.

Padgett concludes that "virtual intimacy" was fostered by a high level of disclosure and frequency of e-mail exchanges with the men they eventual slept with on the 1st date. She discovered that before meeting face-to-face, the women exchanged information about their backgrounds, likes & dislikes, and even sexual preferences.

Dr. Padgett concludes it was the exchange of personal information that created "virtual intimacy". The women created a pseudo-relationship (whether or not one really existed) which resulted in sexual intimacy more quickly than usual.

So What Does This Mean For Men? The essential message for guys: Begin Online Dating Today! It's less expensive than going to bars and clubs and you will have more success and have sex on 1st dates more often. But definitely use protection.

My Interpretation of Padgett & Her Study: She is overly Paternalistic in her conclusions. She paints women as prey and men as predators who trick women into feeling secure and fool women with so-called "virtual intimacy". BullShit!!

Using Common Sense and Logic to interpret Padgett's study reveals that she is wrong in her conclusions. Women know what they want: An attractive male that meets their dating criteria. They choose one or several from the many that email them. Then they question these candidates and weed out those who don't meet their dating criteria. For that successful candidate who doesn't disqualify himself: It's naked time!

If you really examine what's going on here, you'll realize that it's the women pressing the fast forward button on the sexual relationship. The women in the study (and all online women daters) want to learn as much about a potential mate as possible, whether by email or over the phone before meeting face-to-face.

Why? For one reason: to allow themselves to participate in naked time as soon as possible. When a woman finally convinces herself that a man meets her dating qualifications she will have sex with him. In Padgett's study, the women had decided after reading email and having telephone conversations that they would sleep with their dates on their first meeting because the man in question had met her qualifications or at least enough of them for sex!

Putting Padgett's Study To Work For You. The bottom line here is: women want sex just as much as you do. But, and this is the most important factor I've gleaned from Padgett's study and from my own online dating experiences: Women want to convince themselves that you are a Quality Guy and that you meet their criteria.

This is where so many guys shoot themselves in the foot. They think that they must have (1) money; (2) power; or (3) fame to succeed with women. Simply not true. Here's my secret that is backed up by Padgett's findings: To succeed in online dating the only thing you need to do is not disqualify yourself. Women have questions, yes. They have criteria, yes.

However, women only require that you reply to their questions or hold yourself out in fairly open manner in order for them to say to themselves, "Hey this gentleman seems normal, he's available, and he's mine." At this point, they'll grant themselves permission to have sex with you.

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