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<h2>Useful Mindsets in Dealing with Male Competition - I</h2> <p> Have you avoided approaching a girl just because she is talking to another guy?<br /><br />Or maybe you fear of getting embarrass if you approached a group of girls with one or two guys with them because you ASSUMED that those guys were cooler than you.<br /><br />There are two reasons why guys have a fear in talking with women who were with other guys.<br /><br />They think that the woman is "with" the guy, and assume he's her boyfriend.<br /><br />This shouldn't be the basis of not talking to a woman. Especially in a social setting like in the bar, where people meet other people. Plus - that woman is not a "slave" of the guy or a piece of property, she's a human being and is free to whomever she chooses to talk to.<br /><br />You will extremely look confident if you approach more often a woman who is "with" a guy and this can draw out the guy's jealous side, making him look weak and insecure.<br /><br />The other reason guys don't approach women with other men points to a deep insecurity based on a simple misconception.<br /><br />Guys assumed that the "other guy" is stronger, cooler, or somehow more powerful than they are. Men tend to be threatened by other men.<br /><br />This comes from an ancient survival strategy that had been fixed into human brain.<br /><br />It's often hard to tell who the more "dominant" human is in any given interaction. The social hierarchy is very subtle, and mostly unconscious. So when a male is confronted by another male, he doesn't know how dominant the other guy is.<br /><br />He doesn't know if he will be embarrassed verbally, or as was probably common thousands of years ago, beaten up.<br /><br />So it's smart to play it safe by assuming that the other guy is a threat. Males who were too bold may have won a few confrontations, but all it took was one loss to end up dead or exiled from the tribe.<br /><br />And then their genes were taken out of the "game" so to speak.<br /><br />Those guys that avoided confrontation and played safe are the one that can successfully reproduce and survive.<br /><br />The irony of this is that nowadays this hard-wired survival strategy is the basis for most approach anxiety - guys avoid women unnecessarily because they are making false assumptions.<br /><br />The thing is, when you are in the bar or club and you see a woman talking to another guy, you would think she's not WITH him.<br /><br />They JUST MET!<br /><br />I can't tell you how many times I've approached a woman thinking she was "with" a guy, only to find out he was some random dude who just approached her. Or he was just a friend or relative.<br /><br />I have regrets to those times that I've missed so many opportunities talking to a woman just because I saw her with another guy. And this brings me to my first point:<br /><br />YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT HE MEANS TO HER. DON'T ASSUME THEY ARE TOGETHER UNTIL YOU SEE PHYSICAL EVIDENCE.<br /><br />You'll never know until you find out. Just remember to be alert and respectful, because in the off chance they are together, the guy may be the insecure jealous type and start a physical confrontation.<br /><br />So use your brain - just don't be stagnant in making a false assumptions. <p style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top:5pt"> <font face="Arial" style="font-size: 10pt">Article Source: <a href="http://www.ArticlesMaker.com">ArticlesMaker.com</a></font></p> <h3>About the Author</h3> Get a FREE 45 minute masterclass on The Attraction Code. You can sign up here: <a href="http://www.vindicarlo.com/mystery-method/" target="_blank">Mystery Method</a> and also receive the Attraction Code Letter delivered straight to your inbox.

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