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Another thing that I want to talk about is the idea that the other guy can be more "dominant" than you are.
The alpha male during caveman days had a real power - he knows where to get resources like food, and was physically stronger, that he could beat up competitors. The concept of the alpha male is completely obsolete.
But ask yourself if those power still exist today. Every man can survive on his own if he has the source of income - you probably have an access to food and shelter if you're reading this. You're all set.
Plus, it's illegal to just beat people up. My point is, physical strength is pretty much irrelevant in the modern world.
Attacking another person will always end you up defeated because the police always win.
If you mind doing that, you are LETTING RANDOM MEN TO STOP YOU FOR NO REASON!
Pardon my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???
I recall all the girls I missed out on because I was afraid about some DUDE. And it makes me mad remembering that and knowing that the other guys are dealing with some crap!
When time comes that you're on your deathbed, you are going to reminisce on all the things you did and didn't do. How painful would it be to say "I didn't meet that woman because I was worried of the other guy she's with," or "there were a lot of beautiful that I could have enjoyed, but I didn't even try to approached them because I saw them TALKING to another guy.
I don't want that to be you.
So let's analyze it deeply. You truly don't understand dominance if you are seeing the other guy as more dominant.
You see, you instantly consider yourself NOT dominant when you're concerned with who is more dominant. There's a better focus.
Dominant men don't think about who is dominant. To be dominant, you must first THINK like a dominant man. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is they are doing or want.
So when you see another guy talking to a group of girls. Focus on the girls instead of worrying who is the dominant between the two of you.
It's proven to be a waste of time if I have to acknowledge other guys. Out of 10 women, 9 of them doesn't even know the guy - they just meet him.
Or if they do, he's a friend of ONE of the girls, and the rest barely know him.
It's rare for girls to go out with a guy they are dating - usually they will bring a guy who is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.
And also, if that guy IS with one of the girls, that means he's NOT with the other girls - they are fair game.
When you are concerned with who's the alpha male, you are by definition NOT the alpha male. In fact, it's questionable whether alpha males truly exist in the modern world.
Don't assume anything, get your focus in a USEFUL place, and don't let some random dude prevent you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!
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